Comments on: Should you fight with your spouse? How about 10,000 Fights? http://howtofixmymarriage.com/should-you-fight-with-your-spouse/ Tue, 06 Dec 2011 16:10:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: How To Survive an Affair http://howtofixmymarriage.com/should-you-fight-with-your-spouse/#comment-722 How To Survive an Affair Wed, 15 Jun 2011 13:48:36 +0000 http://howtofixmymarriage.com/?p=341#comment-722 I got a good laugh from this post. Where you mention kinda sarcastically "And here was this smart-aleck counselor telling me he thought we should go through this 10,000 more times. Great." I started laughing on that one. I was once married and fought often, usually about dumb stuff. One thing that I feel that is important to mention is that if your spouse becomes out of control with the personal insults. I don't see how that is useful. I remember many times where my wife would say things that were not justified in the context of our arguing, and very hurtful personally. Attacking your mate personally is not necessary if you have a difference of opinion, if you really love them I don't see how that serves any purpose. Just my thoughts. I got a good laugh from this post. Where you mention kinda sarcastically “And here was this smart-aleck counselor telling me he thought we should go through this 10,000 more times. Great.”

I started laughing on that one. I was once married and fought often, usually about dumb stuff.

One thing that I feel that is important to mention is that if your spouse becomes out of control with the personal insults. I don’t see how that is useful. I remember many times where my wife would say things that were not justified in the context of our arguing, and very hurtful personally.

Attacking your mate personally is not necessary if you have a difference of opinion, if you really love them I don’t see how that serves any purpose.

Just my thoughts.

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