Robbed At Gunpoint

Robbed At GunpointIs there something you can learn by being robbed at gunpoint? As TW Jackson explains in the Magic Of Making Up System

After your initial contact…you want to set up your “1st Date” again.

AND…the MOST important part, the secret part is the date HAS to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED. Hold on, I will connect the dots as we go.

That does not  mean ‘dinner and a movie’, because…well…it’s BORING…and does not create a bonding…or in our case a RE-bonding
experience. In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.

Why? You may ask. If you just do ‘dinner and a movie’ you lose out on a Sociologically PROVEN principle…emotionally charged experiences create bonds.

Let’s try to explain it another way.

Last time you went to the bank, do you remember the person in line in front of you? Behind you? Probably not. Me either. But…What if while you were in the bank, it was ROBBED AT GUNPOINT? And what if the robbers couldn’t get the safe open. Now the robbers are livid, screaming and waving huge guns around. The tension feels so thick you could cut it with a knife. You are lying face down on the cold bank floor and your breath is fogging up the tile below. Trembling you realize it is eerily silent at that moment.

“Oh my god! Where are the robbers? Are they behind me? Are they watching me?” So you slowly move your eyes around and see a sweet older lady lying right next to you. She looks a bit like Grandma, and you come out of your own haze enough to realize that she is more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing. You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours and give it a little squeeze that says…”it’s gonna be all right.”

NOW! Let me ask? Are you going to EVER forget that older lady? and…Do you think she will ever forget you? Not in a month of Sundays!

Of course, I’m not saying to go rob a bank on your first date! (I can give you hints for first dates if you are stuck on good ideas!). But you want to go on an EMOTIONALLY CHARGED and exciting date…and preferably several mini-dates in a span of a couple hours. A short roller coaster ride is one GREAT example. Then a rider of the Tilt-a-Whirl. See where this is going?!

The emotions that being robbed at gunpoint bring up are forever in your mind. Setting up that same emotional impact many times on your first date will create the bond you are looking for to create a long term relationship.

 

 

 

 

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Julie and Matt have been married for 23+ years and have the belly laughs and wrinkles to prove it! They are also awesome parents to five adopted kiddos and the owner of the How To Fix My Marriage website.

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