Comments on: How To Fix My Marriage

By: Julie

Julie — Thu, 17 May 2012 03:45:10 +0000

Is he willing to talk to a marriage counselor? Does he feel like he wants to work on things too? It is best to determine these things so you don’t beat a dead horse, or an ended relationship.

By: Julie

Julie — Thu, 17 May 2012 03:42:13 +0000

Stop playing games, might be a good start. And come clean about doing it. If you love her, you must be honest and treat her as you would want to be treated. Then you can move on to addressing the problems that got you looking around in the first place.

By: Alan

Alan — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 03:52:26 +0000

I think that the primary thing most couples need to do to begin to have a GREAT marriage is to commit to work at their relationship. We go to college to get a degree, and then when we get a job we go and get continuing education. Why? Simply because we need to keep on fine tuning our skills. Why do we get married and then stop tyring to learn and get better? Commit to working on your relationship and then have a goal of working at improving how close your are on a scale of one to ten. If your currently at a five, what will it take to move it to and eight or nine. Work at those things that draw you closer. Become soul mates and enjoy the richness of married life.

By: chris

chris — Sat, 21 Apr 2012 21:45:24 +0000

I feel after reading these posts, I feel like I’m lokoing into a mirror. My wife and I will be married 5 years this May. Things have been hard for over a year and a half. We had twins shortly after being married and have struggled with that. I try to do the best I can but she is severely depressed. When she isn’t angry she sleeps. One small thing can get her into it and ruin days for us. I do everything possible to make things easy for her. Cook clean let her sleep, whatever it takes. I’m not willing to get a divorce and would do anything to fix this marriage. Problem is that she doesn’t believe she has a problem and I end up accepting blame even when I’m not wrong to make her happy. I wish she would see that we are worth saving and work with me. At this point I’m hoping for a miracle

By: TIM

TIM — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 06:50:56 +0000

HI,
I NEED SOME ADVICE….I AM IN LOVE WITH MY WIFE AND WE HAD SOME PROBLEMS WERE SHE DIDNT APREACIATE ME AND REALLY MADE ME FEEL BAD.WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR TEN YEARS AND I MET SOMEONE AND SHE FOUND OUT AND SHE MADE SOME CHANGES BUT I HAVE BEEN ACTING ON THIS RELATIONTIONSHIP TO GET HER TO SHOW ME SHE LOVES ME AND I AM HER EQUAL.I KEEP DOING THINGS SO SHE CAN FIND THEM SO SHE THINKS THERE IS ALOT GOING ON BETWEEN US AND THERE ISNT BUT I MIGHT HAVE PLAYED THIS GAME TO LONG……ANY THOUGHTS ON WHAT I SHOULD DO???…..