How to Flirt With Your Spouse

How To Flirt With Your SpouseFlirtation does not have to end at the altar. For guys this idea may be harder than for women because the hunt is over. So remembering how to flirt with your spouse (or that they even need to!) will take some practice. Wives usually like the romantic ways more so flirting will come a bit more naturally in marriage.

It is not as difficult as it sounds. You flirted the first time you met, remember? The blush, the batting of the eyelashes, the cute smile, the teasing dialogue. Remember  your heart beating a bit faster?! Well flirting with your spouse in marriage is no different. Here a few helpful hints to rehone your flirting skills.

How to Flirt With Your Spouse

Flirtation does not have to end. You simply have to be clever and creative in order keep the flirtation wheel turning, which ultimately keeps the flame burning. The following are some suggestions I gathered from sources who claim the “teasers” they shared can do the trick because those who passed them on to me were once happily married. They pointed to these examples as situations or incidents that attracted them to his or her mate, or that kept them fighting to keep the marriage intact even when times were tough. Try one or all of the following ten tips:

1. Leave a small flirty note. Communicate a fun, romantic or sexy message to your spouse via text, e-mail, voice message or, if you’re “old school,” put a sticky note on the fridge, on his/her side of the bathroom vanity, or the dashboard of the car. The message can be simple and to the point like, “Hey, what are you doing later?”2. Give the special look. The next time you are in a crowded room sitting around the dinner table with friends and family, don’t say a word. At the right moment, make eye contact with your spouse and give him/her that special look, that cheeky smile or a mischievous wink. He or she will get your drift.

3. Give the subtle touch. Reach out and touch your spouse in a very gentle way at a time when they least expects it. It can be a soft touch or a flirtatious one. Putting your hand over theirs during a parent-teacher conference, gently stroking the back of your partner’s neck while watching a movie, or slipping off your shoe momentarily under a restaurant booth and running your toes against your spouse’s ankle is a great way to set off a spark. Get the rest of the ideas here.

You are getting the idea. And I must tell you from a woman’s perspective. When her man flirts back, well let’s just say, sparks will turn into flames!

There is nothing wrong with needing a handbook to give yourself reminders.

How to Flirt with Your Spouse


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Julie and Matt have been married for 23+ years and have the belly laughs and wrinkles to prove it! They are also awesome parents to five adopted kiddos and the owner of the How To Fix My Marriage website.

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