How To Fix My Marriage

Couple ArguingThe fact that you’re looking at this website probably means that you’re desperate for answers and help on how to fix your marriage. If you’re at that point, please do yourself a favor – click here now for the help you need to fix your marriage!

20 years ago I was in crisis – my wife of six months had been staying at a friend’s house for three days because we’d been fighting for the umpteenth time, and I had to do something. So I loaded up all of her stuff in the back of my truck and drove over to where she was staying and dumped it in the front yard. This got the ball moving – her friend kicked her out and she went to a motel. The next day, we had 2 options on which way to go – we could have split right then and there, or we could try to work it out.

Fortunately, we chose option number 2, and I’m glad we did. Has it been easy? No. Are we fixed and blissfully happy all the time? No. Have we learned to work through our problems? We’re getting there. But we’re both committed to our marriage, and hopefully you are too.

What did we do?

Back then, there weren’t as many tools to help you fix your marriage as there are now. There was counseling – which we started immediately, and still use from time to time. We found a tape set by Gary Smalley that helped us a lot. We bought The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. We bought the book Boundaries. Each of these things helped us a little – they all added up to us still being together, and we’re now happily married and just celebrated our 20th anniversary. Do we still have problems? You bet! But we’ve got the tools to work through them.

There is a new program out called the Us Factor, and it’s helped many couples in the same situation as you to get their marriage back. The philosophy of this program is that little changes can make a big difference. Same thing we had to do way back when, but much easier. Some of the DVD titles are “Broken Promises and Disappointment”, “Resentment and Realignment”, “Feel the Sparks – Sex & Intimacy”,” You, Me and Money”, “You, Me and Sex”, and “Getting Out of the Marital Rut”.

If any of these titles sound like the problem you’re dealing with – maybe they all sound familiar – then take a look at The Us Factor right now! There is no risk – you can try it free for 30 days and send it back if it doesn’t help. What have you got to lose – other than your marriage! Want more information? Read our Us Factor Review and we’ll tell you how it’s helped us.

What if you are at the breaking up point or worse, passed it? Is there hope to salvage your relationship, no matter what the circumstances? The great answer is yes! Start by not panicking. If you begin there, you also will not make any bad decisions out of this emotional state. There is an effective reconciliation system called The Magic of Making Up. Don’t let the ridiculously low price fool you, this ebook gem is packed with everything from what to do if they have moved on to when to start having sex again during the reconciliation period.

As you can see, there are many resources that we recommend that are an asset in how to fix your marriage. And how to keep it fixed!

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Matt is the parent (along with his wife Julie) to five wonderful kids. He has been self-employed for 25+ years and is the owner of the How To Fix My Marriage website.

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Your Positive Attitude is Key to a Good Marriage

Your Positive Attitude is Key to a Good MarriageThings aren’t going so well in your marriage? Is it time for an attitude check? Your positive attitude is key to a good marriage. So are you complaining a lot? Do you feel you are frowning more than smiling? Even more so, do you think the worst, instead of the best about your spouse when you are talking to each other? Then it is time to turn your attitude around.

Here is a fabulous video that gives you the clue on how to “turn that frown upside down”.

Your Positive Attitude is Key to a Good Marriage

Choosing your attitude is YOUR responsibility. No one can take that away from you!

Next, just what are some practical tips to having a positive attitude. I found this article in Simple Marriage.com and like where it goes. See what you think.

The truth is, I will never have a perfect marriage. I’ll never be a perfect step mom and my kids, like yours, will make mistakes that will embarrass the hell out of me.

That’s life.

I’ve found it bears repeating:

The good times don’t last … But neither do the bad.

Here are 13 places to turn for inspiration, motivation and a new perspective when life has you down.

  1. Words to live by board via Pinterest. Here’s a great quote I found by Marjorie Pay Hinckley: “The trick is to enjoy life. Don’t wish away your days, waiting for better ones ahead.” Amen!
  2. Empowering Parents archives. If you’re not sure what to do when your kids get bad grades or lie or disrespect you, the articles on Empowering Parents have given me many helpful ideas. Knowledge is power.
  3. Watch one of these inspiring TED talks (each video is under 9 minutes). Get the other 10 tips here.

That might be easy if you are just having a bad day. But what if life has taken a sudden, fearful descent? Still, your positive attitude is key to a good marriage here too! Some advice from Carl Alasko to a couple who are facing the near future without an income.

Carl Alasko, a licensed marriage and family therapist, is the author of “Emotional BS” and “Beyond Blame.” For information about his books, see: carlalasko.com. Contact him at dralasko@gmail.com helps a couple who wrote to him about the loss of a job. Here is his response. “Because you and your husband are facing an immediate and an ongoing crisis, you both need to shift to a “crisis management”-type of daily operation. This means adjusting your behaviors and attitude so you can get through each day without making things worse by discussing or arguing over issues you cannot (in the short-term) change.

A lot of research on crisis management shows that people who can focus on the immediate issues and avoid the bigger picture (such as “what does the future hold”) tend to survive the crisis in better shape. Worrying about the more distant future wears you out. The constant stress depletes your energy and tempers flare. The flaring tempers create more stress … and the cycle gets worse. ” Read what other advise Mr. Alasko offered.

You can do this! It will, like any new skill, take some getting used to. First, you must recognize your attitude. Secondly, you must make positive actions to change it. Thirdly, you must practice and practice!

There is no denying that your positive attitude is key to a good marriage. This is one of many vitally helpful marriage hints that you can find today in the Us Factor. Don’t allow your marriage to languish any longer. Click on the link today and be ready for a deepening of your marriage!

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Julie and Matt have been married for 23+ years and have the belly laughs and wrinkles to prove it! They are also awesome parents to five adopted kiddos and the owner of the How To Fix My Marriage website.

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How to Think the Best of My Spouse

How to Think the Best of My Spouse

Years ago, I realized I needed to figure out how to think the best of my spouse. You see if something went wrong, I would immediately think the worst. He hates me, he has a girlfriend, he regrets marrying me or the biggie, he did this on purpose to hurt me!  After a while, I […]

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Marriage: I Just Want to Be Happy

Marriage: I Just Want to Be Happy

Most people just want to be happy. And most people believe marriage will be the vehicle to that happiness. So what happens when it does not happen that way. I mean if the quote below by Benjamin Franklin isn’t right, what is? Marriage is the most natural state of man, and the state in which […]

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Importance of Good Communication in Marriage

The Importance of Good Communication in Marriage

The other day I heard a woman in the grocery store say to her husband  ”come on big dummy”. Now while I was hoping she was teasing him, it made me start thinking about the importance of good communication in marriage. Our words are vital in building up or tearing down our mate. Have you […]

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Robbed At Gunpoint

Robbed At Gunpoint

Is there something you can learn by being robbed at gunpoint? As TW Jackson explains in the Magic Of Making Up System After your initial contact…you want to set up your “1st Date” again. AND…the MOST important part, the secret part is the date HAS to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED. Hold on, I will connect the dots […]

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